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I was the youngest of five children; also the youngest of several cousins in my extended family. Thus I came to be known as Kulanthai to my family – and the name stuck. I was a very shy, retiring child, forever tailing behind my mother hanging on to her sari.
There is only one that I can recall. I didn’t do my A/Ls adequately, and after a few years at the YMHA, my mother packed me off to do my B.A in India – again, against my will. While there, the Indian theatre cum movie actor Cho Ramaswamy was my batch-mate. He was one of the livewires at Madras University in organising and directing plays, but I was still uninterested and did not get involved there.
On getting back to Sri Lanka in 1957 I became a teacher at Senkundha Hindu College. I also rejoined the YMHA. Soon after, a famous baratha-natyam danseuse of that time staged a dance show at the YMHA and some of us were roped in to set up the stage for her. The ‘stage’ was made up of library desks tied together. Those desks were not evenly sized; some were sloped, some were lower than others, some hobbled; she was a hefty lady to boot. We, the stage-makers, had our hearts palpitating throughout her performance in case she came tumbling down with those desks. Fortunately the event ended without mishap. Only after that could we breathe a sigh of relief.
Meanwhile, at this performance, I had noticed Kalai-Arasu Sornalingam, then one of the stalwarts of Tamil theatre, in the audience. For the one and only time in my life, I felt the strong need to make an impression.
When we were dismantling the makeshift stage after the performance, he stood by waiting for his car. I pretended not to see him standing nearby and acted as if I was engrossed in learning some lines for a play. The lines I chose for this impromptu demo were some rather dramatic ones from Raja Raja Cholan, a popular Indian play depicting olden day royalty. He however paid absolutely no attention to me and went off. I was left feeling foolish.
Six months later, in 1958, someone came to Thirunelvely looking for me. “Who is Shanmugalingam? Kalai-Arasu Sornalingam would like to meet you.” That was when I realised, “Ah, it paid off, after all.”