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VOICES OF PEACE – they were just like us

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Although South Africa set a shining example in peace-building with its truth and reconciliation process to nations struggling with the aftermath of civil war, not many have followed in their footsteps. Before reaching for reconciliation, truth, especially about ourselves, can be hard to stomach. 

Within our unique set of parameters, in the past 100 years, Sri Lankans have lived close to violence. Of course, we are reluctant to examine the cause of violence – we ourselves are never to blame, it is always the Tamils or Muslims or even Sinhalese with class grievances rather than ethnic differences who instigate trouble by asking to be treated equally or even fairly.  This closeness to violence, coupled with a protracted civil war has desensitised us to the horrors of armed solutions and many among us think that violence should be the first rather than last recourse. But is that really what we want? In order to help us reflect and perhaps operating on the premise that those involved in the fighting are the best placed to talk about it and the reasons behind our nearly 30-year civil war, VOICES OF PEACE interviews combatants from both sides of Sri Lanka’s bloody conflict – LTTE as well as SL armed forces and chooses stories from 20 among those who fought at the front lines, 10 from each side. 

Those who followed orders and those who gave them, men as well as women, those who began the war as children and those who have children of their own. Those who were rehabilitated and those who were not. In short, a diverse group that could credibly represent a cross section of our warring factions. The strength of Kabir’s book lies in its ability to open conversations.

Through a non-linear narrative, using excerpts from various interviews, Kabir pieces together a story –that of our combatants’ and their motivation for joining the fighting. The reasons they give are as diverse as you could imagine, ranging from ideology to outrage to poverty.

“If Sinhalese leaders had granted Tamils their rights earlier, we could have avoided the war and all the losses it brought.”  Or “One day, multiple shells were dropped in my neighbourhood. A family was shelled. I found the infant’s finger and the mother’s arm. The father’s body was lying under a lime tree. That day six boys joined the LTTE.” Or even “my friends said to me ‘Machang, we’re going to join the Army.’ So I decided to join too. I joined because of poverty…”

The war is soon becoming a receding memory, but has peace brought security to all? “People were law abiding. Before, a woman could walk freely – now she can’t. Now when my child goes to class, I am scared. Even in the height of the war we had that safety. The North was its own country. In 24 hours the LTTE police would catch anyone who did something wrong. It’s not like that now; just pay Rs. 500 and you can get out of anything.”

Nearly 10 years after the cessation of armed hostilities, is it likely that Sri Lanka will see more violence? The majority of combatants acknowledge the sameness of human beings and realise that everyone has similar dreams and ambitions.  However, there seems to be little faith in the political will for peace – “It’s difficult to change people’s mindsets but if leaders are genuine, it won’t be such a difficult task.”

And of course you will wonder: will any of them do it again? “In my next life, I hope I become a soldier again. I sacrificed a lot and did a good deed by being a soldier. I am a patriotic person… I eat, drink and enjoy myself. I don’t commit any wrongdoings.”

Hopefully, the conversations this book facilitates will help us avoid rushing in to armed conflicts. It closes on the positive note that “People should be brought to a place where they are all proud to say ‘I am Sri Lankan’. 

Sarah Kabir will participate as a featured author in this year’s Fairway Galle Literary Festival.

(Sam Perera is a partner of the Perera-Hussein Publishing House which publishes culturally relevant stories by emerging and established Lankan and regional authors – for a primarily Lankan audience. Ph books are available everywhere books are sold and through www.pererahussein.com.)


VOICES OF PEACE – they were just like us

By Sarah Kabir

  • ISBN 078-955-35657-0-9
  • Rs. 1,200, available in all bookshops and 
  • www.pererahussein.com

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